Views of marriage------enjoy yourself first

Basic on the Chinese traditional cultures, ladies at their ages of 25-27 will be the optimal marriage age. At these excellent ages, you got many options of different good guys because you are young, energetic, enthusiastic, and you are good looking. But, once you get into the age of 28, things will be totally reversed. If you don’t want your parents chasing on you each time when calling them then you’d better tie yourself up on an optimal guy as soon as possible.

I haven’t thought about that I would change my mind so quickly. Ladies in Beijing will not trap themselves in marriage so early. Most of them will get married at their 30’s. “Why donate yourself to the marriage so soon? You have to first enjoy the life of yourself but not chores.” My colleague said so. Then I realized that the foregoing issues of mine are only for ladies in canton. Well, I aware life so clear suddenly. Hold your life, no need to pay so much attention on searching a good guy. Why not just living by yourself? I don’t need men to be my crutch.

Awareness of I am a independent pretty lady is not so late at my age of 24. I can see any guys as I like. Saying words like this maybe is because of I immerse myself in “Sex and the City” too much? Anyway, there’s no doubt holding lives just like this program will match me for I don’t want to have a baby. I am not the girl who wants to get into marriage that much. But I want to keep a relationship with a responsible guy who can really understand me. We don’t need commitments and babies but our own lives. The reason for us to be together is looking for fun and holding good lives.

It’s hard to hold such a life with a Chinese man. So I’d prefer to date with foreigners. I had date with foreigners before. And I love those feelings!